For act 286, I read this article from Focus on the Family about fighting fair. I don’t think we fight a lot, but I’m not sure we fight fair when we do. I tend to verbalize my complaints about you or our marriage ad nauseam, which isn’t cool. But neither would it be cool to always pretend like things are okay. It seems that the main point of the article was that we should not go to extremes by either over or under verbalizing those things that are bothering us.