Day 200: A Hike to a Cross and a Few Surprises

If you haven’t noticed, I try to do a fun/big/more involved act every fiftieth day of the blog. This time, I didn’t do something very involved (which might be surprising, since day 200 is a big milestone). Instead, I did something that I thought would be meaningful–I took us on a hike to a cross to pray for our marriage.

On early Sunday morning while at the church retreat near Malibu, I had a friend watch our kids so we could go on that hike. Before we began, we stopped by the cafeteria and grabbed some espressos. When we started hiking, you expressed your concern that our hike might turn into the fiasco of a few months ago, but I assured you that the trail was wide and relatively flat.

At one point, a trail that branched off the main trail shot directly up a hill and had ropes that one could use to assist oneself in getting up the hill. I wanted to check it out, but you didn’t, so you stayed while I went. When I got to the top, I noticed that the main trail wrapped around the hill and intersected the trail I had just climbed. So, I decided to take the main trail back down in order to scare you. I sneaked around the hill until I could see you, then started running toward you and screaming. “Hey,” you said in a nonchalant tone when you saw me, “I knew you would do that.” I guess I’m pretty predictable.

As we continued on our hike, we saw some other crosses in the distance:

Eventually, we found the right one:

But, when we got closer, we saw that the hill that it stood on was really overgrown, so we didn’t attempt to get up it. Instead, we took in the view, then turned back. Initially, I wanted us to leave some prayer requests for our marriage at the foot of that cross, so I was a bit disappointed that we didn’t make it. But then I thought of another cross that I saw on the hike up:

I facetiously called this the Graffiti Tower of Faith.

So, we decided to leave our prayer requests there. I pulled out a piece of paper for you and one for me and we wrote our respective requests on our respective papers. You asked God that we’d be good examples for our children, for strength for our marriage, and for one other thing I can’t currently think of. I asked that our marriage would be characterized by love and unity. We placed our requests at the base of the tower, then prayed for our marriage.

Our prayer requests are on the right. Notice the heart-shaped coffee sleeve by the cups.

As we continued hiking back, I noticed something yellow stuck high up in a tree. “What’s that?” I asked. “It looks like a deflated balloon,” you replied. “Look, it has a note attached to it! I’m gonna climb the tree to get it.” “No, don’t do that. Just leave it alone–I’m sure the message is personal.” “No, I’m going to get it!” I climbed up the tree and grabbed the balloon. When I came down, I detached the note and started to unroll it. “Please don’t read the note,” you started to say, until you saw the handwriting on it. “It’s your message! That’s your writing! How did you do that?!” “Let’s just say that I’ve already been on this hike.” “You’re crazy, but you’re getting pretty good at these dates.”

PS: It seems that I got a little too familiar with a poison oak plant on our excursion. Maybe I should’ve been gettin’ familiar with you instead.

By posting this picture, I'm getting close to breaking my self-imposed anonymity rule for this blog. Still, I wanted the readers to see this.

5 Responses to Day 200: A Hike to a Cross and a Few Surprises

  1. Heather says:

    Love this! (Except the part about the poison oak – hope you’re feeling better). I know I said a few posts back that it was my favotie, but this has now taken its place as my new favorite. You both are very blessed to have each other. Please don’t ever take it for granted (which I know is one of the purposes of this blog).

    This blog makes me both happy and sad. I love that there are men out there who will do these kinds of things willingly and lovingly. It makes me sad to know that I don’t know of any of these men personally.

    Keep doing what you’re doing (ignore the comments from the trolls that I saw yesterday). You are being pleasing to the Lord, blessing your wife (and yourself in the process), and showing your daughters what a Godly marriage looks like. I would love to have that for my children.

    • Thank you for those very kind words. Keep in mind that I still do many things that are inconsiderate of my wife. I’m much harder to live and deal with than the blog makes me out to be (though I’m not trying to put a false face forward). In fact, I wouldn’t want to be married to me! (I understand how weird that statement is, but I hope you get my meaning.)

      I hope that things change for you (within the context of your marriage).

      PS: the troll was me! My brother keeps posting as “Benny,” but we’ve never talked about the fact that I know it’s him. I decided to have a little fun with him yesterday.

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