Yesterday, I gave you a back massage with no strings attached. I started off with this because I know how much you love massages, how much you need back massages, and how grateful you are when I give you them (without expecting something in return!). I don’t like giving massages, so I didn’t have a great time actually giving it. But, you really seemed to appreciate it and that gave me joy. So, the benefits outweighed the drawback. Maybe if I keep giving you massages, I’ll even come to enjoy the process itself.